Sep
2011
Refer or Die, Sales Use of Social Media
I encourage you to take a look at the New York Times psychology study on “The Psychology of Sharing: Why Do People Share Online?”, described as “A first-of-a-kind inquiry into the motivations behind why we share”. The audience for this study appears to be marketers- “Understanding the motivational forces behind the act of sharing will help marketers get their content shared.” Identifying “distinct personalities with different motivations” is a highlight of their study.
It is visually very engaging. But, what excites me the most is we have all been reading, writing and living the realities of social media marketing-but rarely have we gotten some real live data on why this tsunami has taken such a hold on our shared universe.
I am currently reading “The Referral Engine” by John Jantsch. His focus is to leverage knowledge about the sharing phenomenon to positively impact the sales process. Understanding sharing is the central thesis of his work; people who refer are driven to share. As I read it (every time I see the word “refer”, I think “share”), I say to myself, yes this makes sense, this so applies to my business. Some key quotes from Jantsch that have stayed with me are:
There is a tiny part of the brain, the hypothalamus, that-among other things-helps regulate sexual urges, thirst and hunger, maternal behavior, aggression, pleasure, and, to some degree, your propensity to refer. …
“We rate and refer as a form of survival.”
So, when I saw the data in the Times study, I thought: yes John Jantsch is correct. People actually reported in the study that they were motivated to connect. This may sound so obvious now, but it is so critical for us to not get so carried away in the tsunami that we do not stop and take note of what is going on and why, and what sales can do with it. This is particularly important because our efforts going forward are SO intertwined with the power of this earth changing movement. We need data to confirm our hypotheses so that we can better harness this fast moving phenomenon. We have an opportunity right now to use the power of social media to fuel our economy (read sales) and our sense of well-being (read survival) if we make sure we truly understand what is going on with your potential clients. If we just make assumptions about why we think the social media movement is upon us, and do not use the scientific method to go deeper, we are missing a huge opportunity…
What are some of your assumptions about this sharing revolution? What questions would you like to see tested?
Dr. Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.







