LIFT got a terrific “lift” when David Bornstein of the Opinionator column of the New York Times highlighted this tremendous nonprofit in its “Fixes” column.

“One of the most innovative organizations working to re-imagine poverty alleviation. It was founded by college students in 1998, and most of the work is still conducted by student volunteers…If the American Dream is to be resuscitated for many of nation’s poor, there is a great deal that we can learn from them.”

It’s a great read in-and-of-itself. I hope you support LIFT. Spread the word. Donate. Encourage someone to volunteer there. And, feel a tiny bit more hopeful about our world.

Also, in my view, LIFT’s philosophy has some interesting relevance to the challenges that face salespeople trying to navigate the slippery slope of prospect engagement. I by no means equate the two in terms of moral virtue. But, all of us in our work and personal lives benefit when our communication and relationship skills are honed to better empower ourselves and others.

Much is written in sales about how to empower the prospect to feel confident about making a “change”. The importance of the relationship between Salesperson and Prospect has received much attention. Frequently suggested “tips” include:

• Be supportive
• Be empathic
• Build trust
• Make it personal
• Listen
• Do not judge
• Identify goals, aspirations and fears

Here’s what columnist Bornstein had to say about LIFT’s tools of success. Notice that all of the tips listed above are strategically embedded in LIFT’s blueprint:

 LIFT’s approach is grounded in the principle that change happens through relationships.“The sheer act of two people coming together, sharing their strengths in a trusting relationship, is the most important first step in creating transformation,” explains Kirsten Lodal, LIFT’s chief executive and co-founder. “It’s the portal from which people are able to access opportunity in all its many dimensions.”

“When we start dealing with poverty,” notes Lodal, “we turn off our brains about what has worked over time for the middle and upper classes in America.” It’s not just benefits and material resources—but plans, relationships, beliefs and aspirations—the kinds of things LIFT helps its clients to think about for themselves every day.

If this sounds soft, it isn’t. LIFT has spent more than a decade systematizing what amounts to a social technology. It has developed a set of working principles for working with clients. Among them are: be humble, transparent, and friendly; focus on strengths; and beware of your own biases. The advocates all use technology (like the digital natives they are) to track every meeting, as well as clients’ progress on their goals.

The take-away for me is that helping people change—whether it’s overcoming homelessness or investing in a new technology for your business—requires what Bornstein describes as an “integrated process of human development.” In other words: “a sale is more than just a sale.” For change to happen, people need:

• tools to overcome pessimistic feelings and barriers to entry;
• the drive to aspire for better things;
• cheerleaders to support them, to feel that they are not alone; and
• they need you to take the time to get close and personal with them.

What type of communication “lifts” you or your prospect to feel empowered to forge ahead?

Full Disclosure: my daughter has worked for over five years at LIFT, four years as a student volunteer while at Tufts University, and for the past year and a half as a site coordinator for LIFT in Washington, D.C.

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to Visibleains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.

According to research conducted by The Bridge Group, Inc., on average it takes 9.3 touches to get the first meeting.   And, you need that first meeting to start the sales conversation, right?

Not necessarily.  TimeTrade didn’t.

They were able to send a single email with content so compelling it was digested and shared with 10 others before the first meeting—which, by the way, TimeTrade successfully secured within 10 days of sending the email.

Situation
TimeTrade President and CEO Gary Ambrosino craved a new way to open doors.  He was excited about the idea of including video in email to personally connect with prospects’ pain points and highlight bottom-line impacts of using TimeTrade’s online scheduling system.  In the short time it takes to view a video, Gary was confident he could present TimeTrade’s value proposition and actually use its scheduling product in the associated call to action to motivate prospects to book a first meeting at the very moment they were jazzed about the offering.

Solution
TimeTrade used VisibleGains applications and best practices to create a single communication including:

• A personal video introduction with an animated overview; and
• A set of actions the prospect could choose to do such as:
• watching a product demonstration,
• learning more from information presented on the TimeTrade website and
• booking a meeting.

Results

• One email sent to one person who shared it with 10 different people generated 14 views

• 10 Days later, TimeTrade had a booked meeting

• 90 Days later, TimeTrade had a signed deal

“With a single link, our sales rep in the prospecting process was able to reach and touch 10 people, leading to closed business.”
- Gary Ambrosino, President and CEO, TimeTrade 

Conclusion
Getting a first meeting is a key milestone in the selling process, often requiring Herculean effort and tons of guesswork by salespeople about the right time to follow-up.  The initial back and forth exchange between a sales person and prospect kicks off a salesperson’s direct involvement in the prospect’s buying process.

Salespeople open doors and earn the right to subsequent interactions when they demonstrate a persistent understanding of their prospect’s pain points.  Sending compelling content and following up when a prospect is engaged with it (thanks to the alerts sent by VisibleGains in this example when email is opened and content is read) helps salespeople get the first meeting, advance the sale and close the deal.

Are you taking full advantage of the opportunity to start sales conversations in email?

TimeTrade is the world leader in online appointment scheduling systems used by businesses to create new customers, accelerate the sales and service process and make it easy and fast to respond to customers—24/7. TimeTrade’s scheduling software solutions are built on the flexible TimeTrade Appointment Cloud SaaS platform that has the power to scale up to meet the real-time scheduling demands of the largest deployments.

In a series of blog posts, I explore how salespeople can employ STRONG tactics to put the Prospect in charge of change and feel empowered or strong. In my previous post,   No judgment-allow all issues to be on the table, I focused on the N in STRONG sales tactics.

Next (and last!) stop is G:

• Support the change process by asking questions, listening and reflecting
• Trust the Prospect’s perspective on the pros/cons of change, and the risks/benefits of the solutions available
• Respect how difficult the change process can be
• Offer encouragement for change if the Prospect decides to take action
• No judgment—allow all issues to be on the table
• Guide, but do not drive the process—motivation for change needs to come from within your Prospect 

Why?

You’ve heard the expression: “You can lead a horse (or donkey?!) to water, but you can’t make it drink.” Well, people, like horses, will only do what they have a mind to do. To make change happen, it’s critical your Prospect hear her or himself arguing for change by articulating the desire, reasons, and need for things to be different, as well as the belief it can be done (“I can do it! Yes, I can!”) A guiding approach will empower your Prospect to fully engage and be much less likely to provoke that dreaded “resistant donkey”!

How?

• Be curious. You can best guide if you are truly open to learning from your Prospect.
• Follow the 20/80 rule:  talk 20% of the time and listen the other 80%.
• Engage in a dialogue, not a monologue.
• Be careful not to come across as manipulative. Your agenda needs to be about helping your Prospect make the best decision-not about closing the sale at all costs.
• Heed our marketing intern’s advice in her terrific post: base your sales “story” on your Prospect’s specific needs—not your “bells and whistles”—or risk “the sound of crickets on the other end of the phone.”
• Reflect back your Prospect’s own words whenever possible. Sales writer Art Sobczak explains: “If you ask about a difficulty or challenge they have, and then address that in your recommendation using their exact language, they won’t object to their own words.”

TIPS

• Do not be afraid to share your ideas with your Prospect. Your perspectives are a critical part of the conversation, as long as they are presented with respect and curiosity and after—NOT BEFORE—you have  listened to your Prospect.
• Remember to listen for the “confidence” message too. If your Prospect has concerns about her or his or ability to make change happen, then take the time to offer encouragement. I address this issue in detail in my earlier blog in this series.

Listen to yourself:  Who is arguing for change? You or your Prospect?

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.

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“This is a marketing blog, not a political blog. I am not talking up the merits of any candidates but rather using their marketing as examples for all to learn from.” 

So with that said….

It’s the political season and everyone is talking about which presidential candidate connects best with the voter. Genuine? Trustworthy? Feels my pain? Has a viable plan to meet my needs, hopes and dreams?

Spend an hour or two reading B2B tweets about effective sales communication and you’re likely to hear the same chatter about sales “to-dos”:

• Engage in a dialogue not a monologue.
• Really Listen
• Be Curious
• Build Trust

All of these admonitions could come from a campaign manager or sales manager. Hence, the lessons from one can be easily applied to the other—Campaigner can learn from Salesperson and Salesperson from Campaigner.

The predictably intense focus on every word, facial expression, question, or answer muttered by Candidates during primary season, coupled with 24/7 polling, yields data galore on every perception, impression, and reaction of the Voter. Consequently we can all learn from politics about “closing the sale”.

Enter the satirical New Yorker piece on what a “President Romney” might sound like given his penchant for what the New York Times and Boston Globe referred to as Romney’s “guessing” game.

In December 2011, the New York Times reported:

For a candidate who is exceedingly risk-averse, Mr. Romney has developed an unlikely penchant for trying to puzzle out everything from voters’ personal relationships to their ancestral homelands.

“Sisters?” he asked. (Nope, stepmother and stepdaughter.) “Your husband?” he wondered. (No, just a friend from the neighborhood.) “Mother and daughter?” he guessed. (Cousins, actually.)

The results can be awkward. “Daughter?” he asked a woman sitting with a man and two younger girls at the diner in Tilton, N.H., on Friday morning. Her face turned a shade of red. “Wife.”

And the creative license taken from the New Yorker in response to the Times’ report:

Chancellor Merkel looked somewhat taken aback at being mistaken for Sarkozy’s aunt. When she’d regained her composure, she said to President Romney, “I know you will have much to add on the question of the debt crisis in the euro zone, Mr. President.”

President Romney looked at the German Chancellor carefully, up and down. “I’d say you’d go about one-forty, give or take five pounds,” he said. “Am I in the ballpark?”

So what can be learned from all of this? All of the candidates have positive and negative relational qualities and moments.

This same New York Times article gives Romney some positive spin:

Mr. Romney has plenty of moments when he wins positive reactions and seems to make a genuine link, undercutting his caricature as robotic. And he is hardly giving up on mastering the art of the soft sell: he personally insisted on spending more hours talking to voters this election and fewer sequestered in his Boston headquarters.

The point I want to make here is that this guessing game is not something to be taken lightly! On the positive side, candidate Romney in this spoof took on a curious stance towards his “Prospect”. And he was engaging in a dialogue not a monologue. But was he really listening? And what about trust?

What’s wrong with guessing you might be musing? The problem is that guessing can make the receiver feel embarrassed and offended. It is hard enough to pull off when there is a high level of comfort and familiarity between two individuals.

There has been a lot written in sales blogs about the importance of taking the time to build trust and about the necessity for matching the type of communication to your Prospect with the stage or level of “intimacy” of the relationship. My colleague Bill Carney recently addressed  this critical issue in a lighthearted way, focusing on email communications. Give it a read—in addition to a good laugh—you’ll learn a lot about this “matching” issue, which will help you to avoid some of Romney’s missteps.

Making the sale—in the marketplace or in politics—needs to be done in a thoughtful, callibrated step-by-step way:

• Allowing lots of opportunities to understand the concerns and hopes of your “Prospect”; and
• Listening instead of assuming and having your conversation content and style attuned to the level of intimacy you have at any given time with your Prospect.

Yes, being curious is an important quality in building the relationship BUT curiosity is not a green light for guessing. There may be a time to play the “guessing game” with your Prospect, but the price of entry to the competition must be earned.

What sales lessons have you learned from observing the 2012 Candidates?

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.

In a series of blog posts, I explore how salespeople can employ STRONG tactics to put the Prospect in charge of change and feel empowered or strong. In my previous post, Offer encouragement for change if the Prospect decides to take action, I focused on the O in STRONG sales tactics.

Next stop is N:

• Support the change process by asking questions, listening and reflecting
• Trust the Prospect’s perspective on the pros/cons of change, and the risks/benefits of the solutions available
• Respect how difficult the change process can be
• Offer encouragement for change if the Prospect decides to take action
• No judgment—allow all issues to be on the table
• Guide, but do not drive the process—motivation for change needs to come from within your Prospect 

Why?

The change process can be a vulnerable experience for a Prospect. He or she may be vigilant of being judged negatively—as not being smart, brave, experienced, or capable enough to manage the change process. The DANGER is that your Prospect may avoid change entirely in order to avoid feeling this way. Furthermore, if your prospect feels judged, he or she will not honestly share information and feelings with you—further derailing the process.

How?

• Avoid “hot words”

  Salesperson#1: “Wow, that is a horrible problem! If you don’t know who’s reading your emails, how do you know whom to call first? You must waste a lot of time!”

  VS.

  Salesperson#2: “When you don’t know who’s reading your emails, how do you organize your day each morning and decide whom to call first?”

  There is quite a bit of judgment in #1 such as the use of the “hot” words “horrible” and “waste”. When a Prospect feels judged, he or she may get stirred up and decide to go into shutdown mode. He or she may feel annoyed or embarrassed at being judged or just overwhelmed and hopeless by the gravity of the problem. Once this happens, your Prospect’s main goal is to stop feeling bad—as opposed to being motivated to make a change.

  There is curiosity and a supportive stance in #2. The Prospect is more likely to relax and focus on the problem at hand instead of needing to cope (via shutdown mode) with all kinds of negative emotions. Furthermore, he or she is more likely to take the time to explore the problem further and will thereby have more “emotional bandwidth” to be able to listen to possible solutions.

• Avoid sarcasm
• Use validating language such as:  “I get that.” “That makes sense.” “Sure.” “Yep.”
• If you find yourself getting frustrated with your Prospect, STOP and ask yourself, “Am I judging my Prospect?” (“They are never going to change! They just don’t get it!”) If the answer is “yes”, then a great way to shift your attitude is to adopt a CURIOUS stance. “I would like to understand more about this concern that you have. When did it begin? Can you say more about this?”
• Avoid leading questions in which there is clearly a preferred or desirable answer. Such a question implies that not making a change is an undesirable option-hence the Prospect feels judged unless he or she responds affirmatively to your question.INSTEAD OF: “Wouldn’t it be better if you just took the plunge and made a change now?”TRY: “I have had clients with similar concerns. Would you like to hear about how they dealt with such concerns and how they are feeling now?”

Tips:

Do not be afraid of “negative” talk.  If your Prospect is concerned that “it might not be the right time”, go ahead and reflect that back. You may be surprised. When presented in a nonjudgmental way, it may actually mobilize your Prospect toward a deeper consideration of both sides and ultimately mobilize him or her toward change.

Listen to yourself: Are you truly open to hearing everything on your Prospect’s mind?

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.

I first introduced WEAC and STRONG sales tactics (mnemonics coined by me) in a post: Do Not Create Resistant Donkeys! which was a follow-up to a webinar we delivered. WEAC tactics can turn your Prospect into a “donkey”, resistant to change, while STRONG tactics help unleash your Prospect’s inner racehorse, galloping across the sales finish line.

In my last post,  R: RESPECT how difficult the change process is, I focused on the R in STRONG sales tactics. Next stop is O:

• Support the change process by asking questions, listening and reflecting
• Trust the Prospect’s perspective on the pros/cons of change, and the risks/benefits of the solutions available
• Respect how difficult the change process can be
• Offer encouragement for change if the Prospect decides to take action
• No judgment—allow all issues to be on the table
• Guide, but do not drive the process—motivation for change needs to come from within your Prospect 

Why?
Taking action requires a tremendous amount of energy and focus, as well as confidence. Encouragement is critical to keeping all of your Prospect’s “engines” firing.

How?

• Encourage your Prospect to keep a “list of benefits” relevant to the planned change on his or her desktop.
• Share customer success stories to show ways to proceed based on the successful experiences of others.
• Boost your Prospect’s self-confidence in the ability to create successful change by eliciting examples of successes your Prospect has already achieved. Also, remind your Prospect of his or her company’s ability to support a change.

“Tell me about a time that you were able to get your manager to facilitate a change?”

“When was the last time that your manager agreed with your identification of a problem needing attention?”

“In your view, what positive changes have taken place in your department recently?”

• Be confident about your Prospect’s ability to make change—your positive outlook can be contagious!

Tips:

• While it is important to inquire as to benefits and liabilities of change in earlier stages of the commitment, it is much more important in the “taking action” stage to focus on BENEFITS.

• Position your customer success stories on the PROCESS of change, not just on the outcome. Prospects are often unsure about their ability to do what it takes to make the change happen. Hearing about others’ similar concerns and courses of action will help boost confidence.

Listen to yourself: are you building up your Prospect’s confidence for taking action?

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.

In a series of blog posts, I explore how salespeople can employ STRONG tactics to put the Prospect in charge of change and feel empowered or strong. Two previous posts focused on S: Support the change process through reflections and T: Trust your Prospect’s perspective of the change balance sheet.

Next stop is R:

• Support the change process by asking questions, listening and reflecting
• Trust the Prospect’s perspective on the pros/cons of change, and the risks/benefits of the solutions available
• Respect how difficult the change process can be
• Offer encouragement for change if the Prospect decides to take action
• No judgment—allow all issues to be on the table
• Guide, but do not drive the process—motivation for change needs to come from within your Prospect

Why?

Prospects often feel ambivalent about change. Don’t worry: this state need not lead to paralysis. Discomfort about change is a very normal and common experience. Offering your Prospect the permission to experience and explore the discomfort is the BEST way to avoid the resistant donkey.

How?

• Be authentic. No phony “I get it” comments.
• If you do not understand your Prospect’s perspective, try asking:  “Can you say more about that?  I really want to understand where you are coming from.”
• Be empathic:
• Once you have a clear idea of a concern, let your Prospect know you can really see it from her or his point of view.
• Try saying, “ Oh, I see.  That makes sense.  I get how that concern feels to you.”
• Don’t be afraid to hear about fears and other emotions.  Your Prospect can only habituate to uncomfortable emotions if he or she is listened to and validated.
• If you sound nervous, your Prospect will stop sharing and focus on making you feel better.
• Remember, you don’t need to take the fears away.  Your Prospect does not expect or want you to do that.  Listening patiently will be greatly appreciated AND will help facilitate a smoother change process.
• Be patient:  Taking the time early on to understand the “change” balance sheet will pay off later.
• Do not cut off your Prospect, even if the communication seems repetitive.
• If you are on a time schedule, your Prospect will stop sharing and focus on making you feel better.

Tips:

• Don’t just focus on the negatives of the status quo.  Understand the positives. If it were easy to change, your Prospect would have already done it.
• Listen to yourself. Do you sound confortable with your Prospect’s concerns and emotions?
• Believe in the process. Don’t bother if you are just “going through the motions”. The best way to help your Prospect is to be fully respectful of the challenging nature of the change process.

It’s normal for people to feel uncomfortable about change—demonstrate your respect for these feelings.

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.

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1. A pleasant hello (Subject Line)
2. One simple concept that someone wants to understand (Body)
3. A non-threatening way for someone to learn more (Additional Content via link or attachment)

Just like in the real-world, there are subtleties in the approach and execution of each of these that can lead to great success or complete failure.

SUBJECT LINES

Creating email subject lines can be intimidating. However, it need not be if you follow four guiding principles:

#1: Start your conversation in the subject line.
#2: Be personal.
#3: Offer something of value.
#4: Make the reader curious to learn more.

See our full blog post on subject lines.

EMAIL BODIES

Most email bodies at the top of the funnel fail because they include too much marketing gobbledygook and they assume that your prospect cares about you or your offering. They don’t. They simply care about meeting their own goals and learning more about their areas of interest. Here are the key things you should do here:

#1: Pick one concept to share
#2: Convey it simply and clearly
#3: Plant a seed with a 1 sentence value proposition
#4: Be brutal when editing (based on an honest assessment from an external source)

Of the above items, the most important is the last one. Listen to someone you trust answer the question “How would you react to this?” or use one of the tools from a market-leader, like:

• David Meerman Scott’s Gobbledygook Grader – http://gobbledygook.grader.com/
• Jill Konrath’s Value Proposition Generator – http://snapselling.com/resources/

ADDITIONAL CONTENT

When it comes to additional content, it’s hard to predict what the prospect really wants and how much time they really want to invest. The best approach is to combine:

• One short and focused item that you link to or attach that is an extension of the concept from the email body
• Within that one shared item (not in your email), you can also provide a few other links to other items that might pique their interest.

Think of it like the tasty morsel you are offered while wandering in the food court—you want them to take a bite and then take a look at other things that might be of interest. Patience here is critical—push too hard and they are gone.

Emails are more engaging when your message succinctly offers value, is conversational in tone and piques their interest with additional supporting content references.

Without thinking about it, I floss my teeth every night as part of my bedtime routine. I exercise regularly because I love how swimming energizes me. But there are plenty of other should-do’s I keep putting off. One of them is to use social media to build my professional reputation and relationships.

Social media has radically changed the way we communicate and connect with others. What I still think of as a should-do, younger workers—in addition to my early adopter peers—just do.

Don’t get me wrong—I use social media, but mostly to research and listen. If there was the equivalent of a Klout influence score for lurking, mine would be right up there! I am an introvert online. I join LinkedIn groups, but observe from the sidelines. I feel awkward—like I’m back in middle school and not sure where to sit at the lunch table.

It’s high-time for me—and maybe you too—to get over it. I realized I’m not the only one who feels this way when within hours of promoting our webinar, Using LinkedIn to Sell, we got 300 signups. Lots of extroverted salespeople are eager to move their selling skills online to engage with prospects. Like me, they know it’s something they should do and are looking for guidance getting started. They also want to be convinced they’ll realize a return from their investment of time and effort. I bet they’re struggling a bit to find their voices, too.

If becoming more ‘social’ is on your should-do list as a salesperson, I encourage you to check out this webinar. We invited David Kalstrom from Outbound Excellence to speak alongside our very own Cliff Pollan. David shares practical how-to tips from his social sales system. David’s system has been proven successful and reinforces what we at VisibleGains already know to be true: salespeople who engage more personally with prospects by sharing relevant information (via a tweet, participation in a LinkedIn group, direct email or whatever) build reputations and relationships that generate more sales and referrals over time. 

CLICK HERE to watch the webinar recording, Using LinkedIn to Sell.

Remember, it takes practice, practice, practice to transform should-do’s to behaviors we do do.
Are you committed to making ‘posting daily’ as habitual as flossing?

In a series of blog posts, I explore how salespeople can employ STRONG tactics to put the Prospect in charge of change and feel empowered or strong. In my previous post, Supporting the change process through reflections, I focused on the S in STRONG sales tactics.

Next stop is T:

• Support the change process by asking questions, listening and reflecting
• Trust the Prospect’s perspective on the pros/cons of change, and the risks/benefits of the solutions available
• Respect how difficult the change process can be
• Offer encouragement for change if the Prospect decides to take action
• No judgment—allow all issues to be on the table
• Guide, but do not drive the process—motivation for change needs to come from within your Prospect

Why?

Inside your Prospect’s brain resides a wealth of extremely important information regarding his or her perspective on change. Think of it as a balance sheet, detailing the pros/cons of the status quo AND the pro/cons of making a change. In most cases, the Prospect does not have access, at least in an organized and useful way, to all of this information.

You can help your Prospect gain access and organize the information, ultimately making your Prospect’s decision about change clearer and more doable.

BUT you will only be effective if you TRUST your Prospect’s view of that balance sheet.  It is critical that you believe—and demonstrate wholeheartedly—that your Prospect is the best source of this information.

Trusting your Prospect’s opinion will help him or her feel understood, confident and in control of the process.  Not trusting is the quickest way to have the resistant donkey dig in its heels.

How?

• Be patient. Do not try to shortcut the process by jumping in to fill in the balance sheet for your Prospect. Patience demonstrates you recognize your Prospect holds valuable information and it’s worth the wait.

• Do not just focus on the negatives of keeping with the status quo or the positives of making a change. Be curious about the pros of the status quo and the cons of change, too. This shows you appreciate the complexity of the Prospect’s personal balance sheet.

• Ask your Prospect to visualize and describe to you what it would look like if he or she made a change; this shows you respect and trust their insights regarding the change process.

Tips:

• While it is always best to have the Prospect identify the pros/cons and risk/benefits, there is certainly room for you to offer additional data for consideration.  However, assess your Prospect’s interest first. Ask:

• “Would it be helpful to hear some of the concerns other clients have had about making this change?”
• “Would it be helpful to read a case study sharing how another client managed the change process?”

• One way to help your Prospect process information on the pros and cons of the status quo is to encourage data collection.  For example, if the discussion is around poor cell phone coverage have the Prospect keep track of the number of dropped calls.  Quantifying a problem defines it in concrete terms so that solving it feels more actionable, less subjective and overwhelming. A good rule of thumb: if the Prospect is having trouble identifying a metric, then the problem or goal is not specific enough.

Listen to yourself: Are you communicating TRUST in your Prospect’s perspective of the “change” balance sheet? 

Peggy Kriss, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Newton, Massachusetts and a consultant to VisibleGains. Stay tuned for more psychology informed blogs by Dr. Kriss.